When You Can’t Feel Love

saint-198958_1280 (2)When you can’t feel love, love the fact that you can’t feel love! 😉 It sounds like a paradox, but there’s an explanation and a way of doing this – and it’s a powerful tool for getting out of the darkness! 😉

I’ve been asked by some of those who are using unconditional love as a power, what about when they aren’t able to feel it at all? When you can’t feel love, love the fact that you can’t feel it. That may sound absurd, but it’s very, very effective!

 

Before you develop your superpower, love is an emotion. It’s something you feel when you look at or think of something, or someone, you love. It’s a reaction to something or someone. You think of a specific person and you feel love.

 

The exercises in the Superpower chapter are designed to develop the ability to use love as a power – which means using it actively rather than feeling it reactively. Those exercises help are designed to help you to develop the ability to feel love on demand – without needing to see or think of specific things. Once you master that, you can then use love as a tool, aiming it at things you want to change.

 

So, in the beginning, looking at something you love and feeling love for it is only a reference – it’s only to take note of the feeling you’re aiming for. Then it becomes physiological. The exercises help you to develop the ability to get your body into the state of unconditional love physiologically.

 

But, until you are able to tune in on demand, you can use your intellect to love the fact that you can’t love. In other words: if you can’t feel love right now, make that okay by deciding it’s okay. Use the conscious mind to decide that it’s okay to not be able to feel love; and use the conscious mind to decide that you love yourself anyway. Even though you don’t feel it.

 

The point is if you’re not able to feel it, you’re not able to feel it, and any judgement, criticism or any other negative view of the fact that you can’t feel it is only going to add more darkness to the darkness. Imagine aiming your superpower at the fact that you can’t feel it.

 

Loving the fact that you can’t love is actually going to get to you to tune back in!